I had no idea why the children were laughing at me. I checked my zipper and fortunately I was fine there. After a couple minutes, an adult snickered at me and said, “You forgot to change from the bathroom slippers.”
It’s so easy to make mistakes when traveling. My slip-up with the slippers is just one of many I’ve made while in Japan. To help you avoid similar embarrassing moments, here are 12 essential Dos and Don’ts for your Japan trip.
💴 Do: Carry Cash (Including Coins)
While credit card acceptance is growing, many shops and restaurants still display “Cash Only” signs. Coins are especially useful for vending machines when you need a cold drink on a hot day.
💺 Don't: Sit in Designated Priority Seats
No one will tell you if you make this mistake, but you might get disapproving looks. Avoid sitting in train seats marked for elderly, disabled, or pregnant women. Following this custom shows respect for Japanese culture.
🥢 Do: Learn Basic Chopstick Skills
Not all restaurants offer forks or spoons. Watch locals to see proper eating techniques—it’s often acceptable to lift your bowl to your mouth for certain foods. Avoid passing food with chopsticks or standing them upright in rice (this resembles a funeral custom).
🍦 Don't: Eat or Drink While Walking
Even on hot days, it’s considered improper to eat or drink while walking. I remember my wife being scolded by her mother for eating ice cream while walking on the sidewalk. If you buy something from a vending machine, stand nearby until you’ve finished, then dispose of your trash properly before moving on.
🙇 Do: Bow When Expressing Thanks
A gentle bow or head nod when saying thank you shows respect. This small gesture helps you blend in and shows cultural awareness.
💸 Don't: Tip or Hand Money Directly
Tipping isn’t customary—restaurant staff may chase after you to return “forgotten” money. When paying, place money on the provided tray rather than handing it directly to the cashier.
😷 Do: Wear a Mask When Sick
Wearing a mask when you’re under the weather is common courtesy. Masks are readily available at convenience stores throughout Japan.
🧎 Don't: Sit on Curbs or Public Floors
Public ground surfaces are considered unclean. Sitting on curbs or station floors is seen as rude since you might transfer dirt to train seats later. This makes sense when you understand the Japanese custom of removing shoes before entering homes.
🗣️ Do: Learn Basic Japanese Phrases
Don’t expect everyone to speak English, especially outside major tourist areas. Learning a few polite expressions goes a long way and encourages locals to help you.
If you’re interested, here are 25 common Japanese expressions to help you get started, audio included.
🤫 Don't: Be Noisy in Public
Talking loudly on phones in public spaces is frowned upon. The Japanese typically text and use earbuds to minimize noise.
🚶Do: Follow Directional Cues
Remember to switch to the appropriate slippers for each area. This small detail can help you avoid the embarrassment I experienced!
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🥿 Don't: Wear Bathroom Slippers Outside the Bathroom
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Final Thoughts
Traveling to Japan isn’t just about seeing beautiful places—it’s about connecting with a culture that values harmony, respect, and consideration for others. By embracing these customs, you’ll not only avoid awkward situations like I’ve been in, but you’ll also experience a deeper appreciation for Japanese society.
Each time you remember to bow in thanks, stand in the right spot on an escalator, or correctly use your chopsticks, you’re showing respect for your hosts and their traditions. These small victories will become meaningful highlights of your journey.
What cultural tips have you found most valuable? I’d love to hear your thoughts and experiences! Be sure to leave a comment below.